Better Flirting With Girls

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A guy who isn’t a natural at picking up are generally missing certain skill sets, but one really sticks out. These men don’t know how to flirt!

What is flirting anyhow? It’s basic social interaction, that allows us to show interest in a woman. And it opens the door for procreation.

Don’t laugh, just think about it… how did it come to pass that there are so many people on this planet?

It’s instinctive, but something is amiss for many men. There are social norms in regards to this that we’ll get into.

As well, we’ll look at approaches to flirting and how it can change the way we look at social interaction.

We essentially understand flirting in the negative, all too quickly. Say if you are dating a woman, and they flirt with another guy. I’d bet you’d notice that, right?

Try turning that around into the positive. It makes it easier to spot during the good times.

With most of these details, I’ll write more in a later article. For now, here’s a few tips on what to focus on.

Most of flirting has nothing to do with WHAT you say. Rather, it’s how you say it, as well as the non verbal portion.

Now, take a look at what you are doing in regards to this. Are you focusing on what you are going to say next? Work on focusing what is going on around you.

By tuning in to what they say, you’ll become aware of what is happening around you.

Next, understand the tools you have for flirting, aside from your voice. Your body language, and your eyes. They play a critical part in your flirting, more so than any words you’ll be speaking.

You should consider how the woman you are flirting with is reacting. Many men try to look too deep into this. Others don’t pay attention at all!

So what is the right thing to do? Try keeping it simple. Does she look tense, or nervous? Back off for a second and tune in to it. If she looks open, happy, and is interacting with you, then you are on your way.

Tinker with these basics for awhile. They are VERY important, and if you can master them, you’ll have far greater success in the long run!

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