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Make Certain Your Dating Has The All Significant Ingredient

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When you consider dating a woman, more than likely you consider dinner and a movie, right?

Going out and doing things with a woman while you get to know one another is dating.

Have you considered this may be the wrong idea when it comes to dating?

Let’s go over some of the most common mistakes guys make when “dating” a girl…

Mistake #1: Dates are only to make a good impression.

Lots of guys think they have something to prove on dates. They “have to get her to like me!” So they’ll try and take her to fancy places to show her a memorable time, and they’ll try and brag about themselves to come off as important.

Mistake #2: Buying your way into the heart of a woman.

This is not true and is a very bad idea, since many women are not concerned about the amount of money you spend on a date. There is no amount of money or any expensive item you can buy that will get a woman interested in you if there is no mutual attraction.

Mistake #3: Activities Do Not Mean Anything!

Just the sheer act of going out to places with somebody doesn’t mean as much as you think it does. If you do the typical “dinner and a movie” thing, that won’t necessarily get the girl to like you. Spending time together does not always equate to romantic interest.

Mistake #4: Men become boring!

Nothing is worse than going out on a date where there is no spark or chemistry. Some guys get so nervous on dates, that they sabotage themselves by being a boring dud. They talk about mundane things, display little or no personality, and just go through the motions hoping not to screw anything up.

What does dating a woman mean?

The answer is simple; dating is a means of encouraging and building comfort, attraction and emotional connections.

It does not matter how much you spend or where you may go, what does matter is how you build your connection with a woman, while encouraging her feelings for you.

That is why so many guys can take a girl on a cheap date and sweep her off her feet, and other guys can drop thousands of dollars on really creative dates and get NOWHERE.

Your entire focus while dating a girl should be “how can I become more emotionally connected to this girl?”

Consider talking about your passions and shared interests, this will aid you in determining what hopes and dreams she holds dear.

Stay away from boring questions like “where do you work?” Instead, rephrase these questions to be fun and interesting, for instance, ask her: “If you could do anything you wanted, and weren’t bound by the laws of space and time, what would you do?”

Above all, you should just enjoy yourself!

You might want to tell her a joke, even if it is not the best, just so you can both enjoy a good chuckle. Take care to guide the conversation towards the things she finds interesting, this helps you find out who she is. Be curious.

But most importantly, don’t shy away from sex!

Some men fear bringing up the subject of romance while out on a date, however, to build sexual tension while magnifying the attraction, you must.

Relax and be a bit wicked by flirting and joking with your date about romance women enjoy this as well. Therefore, if you do not, you have no means of building the attraction of the woman you date onto a higher level.

Visit Dating-To-Mating to learn who is Paul Janka. Find out how becoming an alpha male can help you find the ONE.

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