Dating Site Scams – One For Men To Be Aware Of

By Jayde Johanssen

If you are a man, looking to join an Adult Dating Site, we strongly recommend you read up about the sites you are looking into, read some reviews and do some basic homework before you spend any money on them. There is a problem endemic to adult dating, which if you are not wary, could distract you from what you are supposed to be doing (IE. meeting women in real life) while emptying your wallet at the same time.

The biggest issue men face on dating sites, adult dating sites in particular, is many women don’t join the with the intention of meeting you, they join them with the intention of fleecing you. These women will always be hot, so you’ll always be tempted.

This is a brief run down of how the scam works. You join a dating site and pay your membership fee. You see a bunch of girls you’d like to meet and contact them with an email. After a couple of days, you get a few replies. Having communicated a couple of times, these girls will then ask you to join them at their personal site so you can communicate easier.

If you choose to see where this is going, you’ll follow the link and visit the new site. At some stage on the new site, you’ll be required to create a membership. Then if you want to view the girl’s profile, you’ll need to upgrade.

Your credit card will be used either to pay for another membership fee, or to pay to view the girls. There will be webcams at this site, so you’ll get to see, talk and interact with these girls online, paying all the way. Obviously the girl who introduced you to this website makes a cut on every cent you spend. That’s how she makes her money, that’s why she wanted to meet you.

Soon enough the original website you joined will bill you for you next month’s membership. And then it will hit you. Not only have you not met any girls yet, but you haven’t even been using the website. What the hell happened to the month? That’s right, you spent it webcamming.

Sure, you’ve met a few girls that love to chat with you online if you are happy to pay them. Is this what you originally joined the dating site for though? And is this what you want to be spending your money on, given these girls will never actually meet you. Why would they? The reason they joined the dating site was to get your money. You are paying them now, why would they want anything to change?

This type of scam is a danger to men at most dating sites. The owners of many sites though take responsibility for this type of thing and try hard to verify many of their members in an attempt to protect their paying members. This is why site selection is important if you are going to join one. If you want to meet people in real life and not just online, do your research before you hand over your credit card. Only join the reputable dating sites.

The second way you can avoid falling into this trap, is by setting a rule that you will not follow women who want you to join another website, no matter how hot they are. Lets look at the facts here. The purpose of joining the original dating site was to find women to introduce yourself to. That’s it.

Once that is done, the website’s job is over. From here, you are supposed to correspond, exchange numbers, chat and then meet in the real world. So once you have met someone and started corresponding, what possible purpose is there to joining another site? You have met her already!

One last idea you can try is to only ever be a member of one dating website at a time. So no matter what happens, never join a second dating site until you have quit the one you are already a member of. This will ensure you test each website individually and remain true to online dating. IE. You will use the site to meet women for dating. Only quit and join the next site if you are not getting acceptable results.

Now, if you are still not getting a response from real women by your third adult dating site, there is probably something amiss with you profile and your internet manner. Women respond to different things online than they do offline. So if this is the case, do something about your internet dating style before you spend any more money on dating sites.

Having recognised the number of charletons at adult dating sites, Jayde Johanssen recommends men research dating sites thoroughly before spending their cash

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