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So You Have Been Recently Dumped – Ways To Secure Her To Come Back

By Joe Karlos

It is a guy thing, 75% of break ups are instigated by the girl. That means that it is usually the girl who wants to break up and the guy who wants to stay together. So for all those guys who want their ex back, this article is for you.

The first thing you should think is whether you actually want to get her back. You might just want to keep things simple. Sometimes the effort required to move out of a relationship and find a new one is such that they are happy just to keep things as they are even though they may not be that good. Even if the relationship is just Ok, that is more often enough for the guys.

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Cynicism also plays a part here. Some people believe that they should just settle with what they got and not try to get anything better. They might believe that they are not worth it.

Despite this, it’s important, before you do anything, to consider if the split is a blessing in disguise. Maybe it’s an opportunity to move on. If you decide that, after all, it’s time for a change, then read no further. However, if you seriously want your girl back, read on.

The next thing you should do is find out whether she still loves you. Even if she left you, that doesn’t mean that she doesn’t love you. She might have just acted on an impulse.

However, if you think that she does indeed still love you, resist the temptation to bombard her with text messages and phone calls. If you act like a stalker you will lose her for good.

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What you have to do is quite hard but you have to do it. You must not contact her. Get out there, and have some fun. Look like you are getting over her even if you are not. Even date some girls that are shared friends, but treat them as friends. That will signal to your ex that you still want them, even though you are dating others.

During this time, you have the opportunity to get your head back together again. By seeing other people you will also reduce the pain you might be feeling. As you find others who want to be with you, your self confidence will return. You will also be able to think more clearly about her and think again whether you want to get back with her.

The thing is, if you were just coasting when your girlfriend left, you may now be discovering what you were missing.

If after all this you still think that she is your soul mate, then you should try to get her back. The best way to do this is by being her friend. By being there for them, and then progressing to some light hearted meetings or outings you will soon find out if she’s the one, or if you need to move on and her initial moving away was, in fact, a blessing in disguise.

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Karlos, Joe "So You Have Been Recently Dumped – Ways To Secure Her To Come Back." So You Have Been Recently Dumped – Ways To Secure Her To Come Back. 1 Jul. 2010. 1 Aug 2014 <>.

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