When It Comes To Scheduling Your Kids
By Randall Cox
In order to stimulate your children’s mind and body, it is important to engage them in a variety of activities. But as much as possible, it is also important that you do not over-schedule your children.
What a lot of well meaning parent would do is set out to interest their children in a few extracurricular activities aside from school and ordinary family fun stuff.
It’s natural to work hard to be the best parent that you can be. But many parents assume that scheduling their children for as many activities as possible is actually the best way to rear kids because they get so caught up in the chaos of ordinary busy life.
Realistically however, over-scheduling your children has the potential to impact your family in a negative way, preventing your child from enjoying quiet solitude and some occasional time to simply reflect on life and enjoy an ordinary, ‘lazy’ day.
Scheduling their kids for as many activities as possible is what parents want to do nowadays and they want to buy into the latest developmental tapes and do everything possible to stimulate early intellectual development and healthy habits.
It’s no surprise that this pattern of over-scheduling can backfire and it will leave kids confused, discouraged, exhausted, and un-motivated.
Scheduling activities was virtually unheard of in the old days. Traditionally, parents have gone with the flow and they encourage their children to engage in active play as they see fit.
Do you know how you can encourage your kids to get involved without over-burdening them?
Here are some tips from experienced parents:
Scheduling One Activity per Season. For instance, if you are interested in getting your children involved in sports, then schedule something for the spring and something for the fall. Don’t worry about having a plan for every season, or every weekend day. This one activity will be enough to stimulate your child’s development and encourage a healthy lifestyle without over-burdening them.
Allow Your Children a Choice. You want to try as best as possible to select activities your children will enjoy. To do this you should consider one or two different activities and consult with your child. If they hate soccer and you register them for that sport, then you will probably only end up frustrated and your child will not benefit from the experience.
Let Them Some Quiet Time. Some portion of the week, day, or month where your child doesn’t have to do anything should be allowed. In a child’s development, introspection and time for simply exploring are essential components.
We are all well meaning parents in the long run. Just remember that a good parent isn’t defined by how many activities they involve their children in each and every day.
Being a good parent means that you allow your child the opportunity to explore many different things without forcing many different things on them.
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