You woke up one morning and suddenly you realized your marriage was shattered. He just dropped the bomb of infidelity and he doesn’t want to leave you either. Your emotions might be swirling now that you are so emotionally down and you want to stop the cheating but you also want to save the marriage. Yes, you can stop the cheating. First thing, don’t try to pull the plug. Step back so you can see the whole scenario because if you’re not, you might end up doing or saying something you will regret for the rest of your life.
Stop Pointing out his Flaws
As your marriage grows more and more comfortable many women become more critical of their husbands.
They are not as profound and expressive as women are. And in order to bridge this communication gap, try to use words that are friendlier and softer. Pointing out his flaws even though how small it is will send him to the greener side.
Ladies, it’s important that you realize he knows his flaws. He knows them better than you realize. But, and this is a very serious but, he believes (and would like to continue believing) that they aren’t all that bad. He wants to think they aren’t bad enough for you to even recognize much less point out.
The worst that you can do to your guy and even to anyone is pointing these flaws out in a disrespectful manner. Men are more emotional than women, this is a fact. We just misunderstood women’s physical expression. Remember that men would rather feel unloved than feel inadequate and disrespected.
Embrace Your Inner Flattery Factory
Did you say men are weak in sweet talk? Yes, flattery weakens their knees especially when it comes from a beautiful woman. How beautiful you looked on your first date still lingers in his head even if it has been years from now.
Face the fact that a man often cheats because the other woman flatters him and not because she is much younger, prettier, or funnier. So, stroke his ego with a lot of, yet truthful, sweet talk from your inner flattery factory.
But take note that your husband is smart enough to believe any false flattery. Your goal is to win him back so the greatest compliment that you can give is complete honesty.
Play with his Mind (in a good way)
Wake him up with that mysterious smile of yours. This will leave him wandering what you’re up to. But not over and above what you can do because he might think something is wrong with you. You need to give him the angelic smile and not the devilish grin he had seen from “Fatal Attraction” movie.
Call it mental seduction. Seduction through mental power is exciting for men. You can make them go home and be available each and every night.
Leave love notes in his briefcase. Slip a sexy photo in his organizer. Put a lipstick mark on his coffee mug before he wakes up. Leave him guessing what you’ll do next.
There are just so many things you can do that will eave him thinking about you all throughout the day. Do one sweet game each week and see how he races home for you.
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