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When Men Deflect Blame To Women If Caught Cheating

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Does he cheat and blame you? Or do you blame yourself for his cheating? Whichever road you take, women often share the blame for their cheating husbands whether or not they are really have something to so with the infidelity issue.

Common culprits among women dealing with cheating husbands include: thunder thighs, temper tantrums, gray hair, spending habits, making too little money, earning too much money, being a terrible cook, and even being a terrific cook. Women will find all manner of fault in the mirror for their husband’s cheating. Unfortunately, these things are not often the reasons for his cheating.

If he cheats and blames you and you think you have nothing to do with it, then who’s to blame? Clear up your mind and stop blaming yourself. Here are the common reasons why men cheat on their love ones.

Men Cheat When They are Stressed & Pressured

This is probably the big kahuna when it comes to commonly cited reasons men cheat. The stress at home can be over money, division of labor, children, bills, jobs, hours, or complete and total chaos in the home.

Stress isn’t limited to home. There is stress from work, family, and friends that come into play and impact your marriage.

Is there anything you could have done differently to diminish the stress? Perhaps. Hindsight is a tricky thing. Creating a stress free or stress-light zone at home for your husband would give him great incentive to never stray.


Men get lonely too. I have no idea who started the nasty rumor that women were the only people who get lonely. Men get married to have a life partner. In order for you to be that partner, you must be present, physically and emotionally, for your husband.

Otherwise, loneliness does have a tendency to creep in and before he realizes what has hit him a sympathetic ear and a deep need for companionship and conversation has him susceptible to the charms of another woman.


Men are not that confident as you think they are. They too have self esteem and self-worth issues. A man who suffers from low self esteem and self-worth is more likely to confirm his worth through cheating. In the first place, he wants his woman to confirm and validate his value as a man and constantly feel that he is the apple of your eyes.

It may sound silly because it really is; your man needs you to confirm his worth through laughing at his jokes though they sound corny or prove that he is your knight and shining armor. Making him believe that he is truthfully the greatest man in your life will create enthusiasm in his part and will definitely boost his ego.

Is it your fault your husband cheated on you? No. He’s a big boy and he knows right from wrong. Ultimately, he was the person who made a bad decision. Could you have prevented it from happening? Probably not.

Dealing with infidelity and his blaming can make saving the relationship really hard, but still you have the choice to step back and cry for a while before starting the fight to win him back.

Check it out: and see what it can do for your marriage.

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