In our lives we often face a challenge when you know that you have to do something and this will be good for you or your spouse, but every week you think: “I work hard this week and I will do that thing next time”. And one week pass, than another, and you still thinking that this is valuable and you will do it next time. And then you reach a point when too late. This situation can be take place in different areas of your life. In this article we will talk about situations like this in your relationships with your spouse.
It’s very important to find time and energy to do things that can improve your relationships in marriage, otherwise you can loose “connectivity” with your spouse and this may bring you to the divorce. Searching for answer, we would like to refer to jobs of Zig Ziglar – american well-known motivation speaker.
- Try to focus only on positive outcome. Discuss what the expectations of your mate and try to decide how will be better to improve your relationships. For example, you can read a book about family relationships together and discuss points which you think are useful for you couple.
- Every time when you decide to postpone some of family business, saying something like “I’ll do it next time, now I’m too tired” remember, that than you can postpone it again or forget and all you causes can be only excuses for yourself in the first place.
As an example for the last point, one of the most famous motivation speakers in the world – Zig Zigler, offers to perform the following experiment: Imagine, that one day somebody come to you and say that you win a tour to any corner of the world with “all in”. But he set in one limitation – your plane will take off in 12 hours in any case. Now, think – can you resolve all pre-vacation business in time? Meetings, baby sitter, house, etc. Most of people will answer that they can move their meeting and work business, can find a baby sitter and someone to watch the house.
As a summary we want to single out the general ideas and advices – only you must make a decisions what things are really important to you and when you need to do them. And if you want your marriage to be happy – you need to maintain a good communication with our spouse.
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