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Cheating Spouse: How To Catch One

By Jarrett M. Presta

When people decide to get married, never in their wildest dreams did they ever think that one of them will commit cheating. No person will marry someone who is likely to cheat, right? Therefore, when you know about your cheating spouse what will you do?

The pain is incomparable when a person finds out that his or her spouse is cheating on him or her. The future seems so bleak and doubt will start creeping in that you end up thinking if your spouse really loved you in the first place. And now, you are at a complete loss on what to do. Will you immediately file for divorce? Or do you love your spouse too much to forgive him or her?

The very first thing that comes to mind when a person learns about his or her cheating spouse is revenge. But no amount of revenge can really make the pain go away especially if you definitely love the person. Therefore, once you have come to terms with the fact that your spouse cheated on you, it will be good to talk with him or her.

You surely have a lot of questions that need answers. And only your spouse can give the answers to these questions. More often than not, the aggrieved spouse wants to find out why the infidelity was committed. When you get the answer to this question, you must be sure to keep an open mind to comprehend it.

Always remember that a relationship is successful because of the two people who are in it. Likewise, failed relationships happen because the people in it let it happen. For instance, many cheating spouses started on this path because their spouses did not have time for them anymore. Oftentimes, the needs of your spouse take a second seat because of your busy work schedule. Or you may have been disrespecting your spouse for all the years that you have been married. For example, you always shout your orders at him or her as if he or she is a helper. If your spouse has been putting up with this attitude for so long, he or she may look for respect somewhere else.

These are just some examples of circumstances showing that both spouses are partly to blame for the cheating. If you are treating your spouse with love, affection, and respect, he or she does not have a reason to cheat on you.

Once you know the reason behind the cheating, you can ask your spouse how she or he feels about the mistake that he or she did. If your spouse asks for your forgiveness and he or she shows remorse, are you willing to forgive? This is the most difficult question which you will have to answer. Are you willing to give your spouse another chance to make things right again? Or do you want divorce over saving the marriage?

Before you make any decision after finding out about your cheating spouse, you must talk things out. Know what could have caused your spouse to cheat and see if he or she is sorry.

What will you ever do if you catch your cheating spouse? Check out the book Save My Marriage Today and find out the causes of cheating and the options that you have in addressing this.

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Presta, Jarrett M. "Cheating Spouse: How To Catch One." Cheating Spouse: How To Catch One. 8 Aug. 2010. uberarticles.com. 4 Aug 2014 <http://uberarticles.com/home-and-family/relationships/cheating-spouse-how-to-catch-one/>.

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Presta, J (2010, August 8). Cheating Spouse: How To Catch One. Retrieved August 4, 2014, from http://uberarticles.com/home-and-family/relationships/cheating-spouse-how-to-catch-one/

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