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Cocktails With Companions: Help Make The Bachelor Party One He’ll Never Forget

By Ben Pate

A bachelor party, like the best mans speeches, is more about tradition that it is about a man’s last night as a “free” man. Generally, a bachelor party is pretty open to interpretations and the wishes of the Groom. Talk to the Groom and ask him what sort of party he’d like to have, and listen to him. You’re probably one of the people that knows the Groom the best, when it comes to planning an awesome Bachelor party, follow what you know.

Whatever you plan for the bachelor party is open to a whole realm of possibilities. Bachelor parties hold the reputation of being drenched in alcohol and populated by a crowd of strippers, but this doesn’t apply to all men. Once again, make sure you know what the Groom has in mind. If he prefers to spend the night playing pool and drinking beer, don’t rent out a huge party house with a topless completely female staff and a team of bartenders.

Make a guest list and pick a good date well enough into the future so that all of the Groom’s friends can attend. Decide what kind of menu you plan on having, and call a catering company well enough in advance to book for the night you want. If there’s going to be drinking, consider in hiring a limo or another form of transportation so everyone can get home safe.

More and more parties are being combined to include both the Groom and the Bride. Bachelor parties can be uncomfortable to talk about with a Bride, especially if she doesn’t think strippers qualify as legitimate entertainment. If the Groom wants to hold a party with his Bride-to-be, don’t get mad. All that means is that the girls there are the friends of the Bride, as opposed to topless waitresses. You may also need to consider your best man speeches before the wedding.

It’s nearing the Big Day and you are on the home stretch. Get plenty of rest, because wedding days are long days, and you don’t want to be phasing out during the party. Even though I know you won’t cry, pick up some tissues before the wedding. I’m sure someone will need them. Your part in the wedding is very special, and you want to be able to perform to the best of your abilities. The Groom chose you to help carry him through this very special day, so be proud of that.

Remember to practice, practice, and practice some more, but don’t memorize it word for word. The main goal is to be natural and passionate. This is your chance to thank the Groom for choosing you and how much you value your relationship with him. If you fumble a little bit, don’t panic, everyone knows that your job is a tough one. Even professional speakers fumble from time to time. No one is expecting you to write a speech for the President. Just relax, be yourself, and have a little fun. You’re allowed.

Remember to be genuine when you’re performing your best mans speech. Even if you mess up a little, the audience will appreciate all the effort you’ve put into writing your best man wedding speech.

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Pate, Ben "Cocktails With Companions: Help Make The Bachelor Party One He’ll Never Forget." Cocktails With Companions: Help Make The Bachelor Party One He’ll Never Forget. 21 Aug. 2010. 14 Mar 2017 <>.

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