Everything is going fine or at least you thought it was until you get the bombshell, they don’t love you any more, you’re not right for me, it’s over, we’re done. However it doesn’t have to be that way. There are tricks you can use to get your ex back for real.
When they do come to you and explain they are leaving or that you’re split, ask why and then push it, don’t go arguing or using excuses. Let them say what they want to even if it’s lies or you don’t agree. Keep in your mind what they are saying.
The opening move you have to make once it has been established why you broke up is to calmly and collectively agree with their reasoning, say that you understand and agree and that the same had been going through your mind as well. This automatically puts the ex in a situation where they will instantly like you and respect you for recognising the same fault.
At this point walk away and explain that life should move on and you know you can both do this. This is even more of a jolt and will make the ex wonder if they’re doing or have done the right thing. It is also very important to remember at this point not to harass them.
By doing this they will have a very good lasting impression of you after you’ve walked away. You must not under any circumstances start to ring them or text them, don’t speak ill of them to anyone else, if friends want to talk, say you’re fine and it is for the best.
If you’re already past this stage then write (yes write, pen and paper) them a short letter going over the opening move mentioned above. Explain how you actually agree and that they are right. It won’t take long so hold off the contact and let them come back to you!
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