Help! I want to Turn a bootycall Into a Boyfriend

By Sally Webb

Do you ever wonder if you can turn a bootycall into a boyfriend? or have you come across this question yourself from friends, or from forums written by women out there? What exactly does the answer depend on? Would you want to know your chance to make it happen? Well read on, I have written this answer based on consultation with many male friends out there ranging from the stable boyfriend material to the bootycall boy material. So here we go:

Firstly, how did you start the whole fling at the beginning anyway? It depends on that sometimes. Basically, if it started as a one nighter, turning a bootycall into a boyfriend is unfortunately very hard. After all, he probably is thinking that this is just another true bootycall relationship. It doesn’t matter if you’ve succeeded to convince your brain that the few but infrequent night stands may mean a real relationship, it’s not automatically turning into a relationship by itself.

The good news is though, you can figure out what is the chance that it MIGHT happen very easily. All you need to do is stop being a bootycall to him, and see if he even wonder around the idea that it might be a good idea to take you out on a real date. Of course, it is way easier to be said than done.

So how are you going to do it? The Best way to stop being a bootycall to him is to replace the sleeping together with actual dates. Well, I’m not saying you should not ever sleep with him again…but you should at least hold back some of the times. Otherwise, when are you going to have a real date with a real conversation? So If he takes too long to ask you out on real date, go and ask him! it’s not illegal to ask a guy out, trust me.

Then see how he reacts to that – if you one way or another manage to ask him out for a date with a real conversation. Basically, he will MAKE time if he is interested, and he will make up excuses ranging from the lamest to the most-believable ones to avoid the actual date if he’d rather keep the bootycall status intact. If he’s keen, your chance to turn this bootycall into a boyfriend has gotten higher. If not though, just move on and don’t waste time with this man, because plenty more fish in the sea.

Until now, many women are still under the impression that men are just like women, you know, physical intimacy always have some level of emotional attachment to it (most women anyway). Basically they think men who only wants just a quick bootycall fix will at some point decide that he also wants a relationship (with you). That is very untrue, because men separate bootycall and relationship altogether. Whereas some men may be ready, some men are quite clear that they don’t want a relationship as yet.

Women should stop assuming that sleeping with a man will trigger some emotional factor in him and therefore ‘relationship’. You should accept the fact that men have two different compartments in their head i.e. sex and relationship. So whether or not he is interested to be your boyfriend or he thinks of you as a bootycall is a separate question altogether.

Of course, when a so-called relationship has ‘bootycall’ or ‘FB’ name put together with it, you are up for many different confusions. Want to know exactly what men think of you? Find out more on how to turn bootycall into a boyfriend. Article by Sally Webb, Dating is SO Complicated.com.

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