Have you ever thought that your man’s cheating act is also a way to look back and save the relationship? Did it ever occur to you that his cheating act might be forgiven and is all that it takes for the start of a brand new relationship? First, consider the following:
a. A quick fix is not the right fix
The whole kit and caboodle can never be greater than the sum of it’s parts right? Just remember that the wrong parts can make it seem like so much less.
Choose carefully from all the options available and determine which one will suite you best, don’t settle for anything less, go for the best. Some quick fix will work but in getting an ex back, it will not work.
Talk out Your Problems
Do you remember when you first started dating and you hung on every single word? Now the two of you are lucky to make it through table talk over dinner without one tuning the other out (or both of you drifting on to other mental conversations).
Ask yourself when is the last time that both of you engaged in a serious talk? Why don’t you both sit down have a cup of coffee and start a casual conversation first to prepare yourselves for a much more serious talk after?
a. Know what you really want
Before you jump and beg him to come back, why don’t you think a million times first and consider if getting him back will be the best solution or it’s better to let him go? If you keep on arguing, then don’t.
Don’t let your mind change all over until you can’t decide what’s best at the end.
4. Make him notice you, again.
Sound so easy but in fact it’s the most difficult thing to do. How can you get his attention if he does not want you to? If he keeps ignoring you? Of course to be able to fix the problem you have to get his attention for him to know that there is a problem going on, and if he had ignored you for quite some time now, you have to make a drastic move to get his attention.
One major positive way to get his attention that is likely to get you the results you want is to remind him of all the things you admire and respect about him. Send a card or just tell him what’s on your mind. Compliments will penetrate the part of his brain that no amount of nagging dares to tread and it can make all the difference in the world.
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