Cheating is one of those things that many people never plan on doing. There are a few who say they would do it if they knew, without a doubt, they’d never get caught. But, for most people the fear or getting caught and risking the wonderful relationships they are in at the moment is too much for them to take. That’s actually a good thing.
Now, how about those people who took the risk, will that mean they are really mean people? Of course not. Would that mean that they are somewhat lacking? No, definitely not. That’s another off the mark answer also. So what could that be?
It is true for most cases that when one cheats it is because she felt something really special has been lost or that they’ve discovered the relationship they are in is not providing that which they need from it.
Would you think then that it is all your fault that your partner fooled around? No way! Mind you, cheating is a decision made by someone. Right or wrong it came about because there is an active choice made by the other person. You cannot be faulted with that then.
Will that imply that it couldn’t be prevented even when you desire to? No, definitely not.
Relationships require work to be successful. No matter how much you love the other person if you aren’t both tending to matters at home one or both of you are not going to be happy with the life of its own your relationship seems to be taking. It’s time to rein in the runaway horse your relationship has become and get your house in order.
Go get some counseling. Not just for couples, anybody can get counseling help which could aid in relating with your wife and even help you see things in her perspective. It would be a lot better when you can convince her to get into the couples counseling sessions. For as you work side by side together in making a stronger better relationship the bond between you gets better too. This could also mean that she is interested in making things a lot better between the two of you.
Be romantic. How long has it been since you’ve really turned on the charm for your wife. While you may not need the romance, she does. If you want to keep her happy with you, it is a good idea to feed the need for romance every once in a while. Buy her small but meaningful trinkets. Write poetry or silly love songs for her. Let the world know how much she means to you.
Share your dreams. Sharing your dreams together is a huge bonding experience for couples. Working together to accomplish those dreams makes those bonds even stronger. See what a difference it can make in your relationship.
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