Why do men cheat to their girlfriends or wives? What are ways to help them stop cheating? These questions have always been boggling people most especially those who are in a relationship. Discussing it with friends who have experienced the same thing will create a female bond. But here are some insights why men cheat and helpful tips to make them stop.
Why do Men Cheat?
When you are in a relationship, it’s hard to analyze why your boyfriend or husband cheats on you when you have done almost everything to have the perfect affair.
Men Cheat for all sorts of reasons, most of the time they do it because they can always get away with it; there is something wrong with the relationship. Some are just bored and wants excitement on their lives, or some have the opportunity to do it or sometimes attraction to other women.
Women can appreciate the need for their men to protect the family, provide for the family, and bring order to the family. They have a more difficult time appreciating the primal need to do the deed that leads to new life.
What Can You Do To Help Him Stop?
There is no guarantee that you will be able to change your man from being bigamous to a holy little husband overnight. But you can prevent it from happening and it starts with you.
1. BORED. If your man is bored, you can work on loving the things that he likes, in this way, you get to enjoy it and be with him at the same time. Try out new things like a mountaineering adventure, or activities you haven’t tried before but don’t change him to something he is not, he will just go on a separate way and look for a new girl with the same interest as his.
2) Availability. There is little you can do about that other than making any other woman pale by comparison. Make him want to come home to you rather than risk his happy home life with some other temptation on the side. How do you do this? Stop nagging, start giving as good as you get in the bedroom (even better on occasion), and make every effort to make your home as stress-less as possible.
3) Attraction. Believe it or not you don’t have to be the most beautiful woman in the world to be beautiful in your husband’s eyes. He believes you are beautiful or he wouldn’t have chosen you in the first place. That doesn’t mean that you can’t pretty up the package every once in a while. Accentuate the positive and work to eliminate (or at the very least disguise) the negative. You’ll be amazed at what an impact this has on your marriage and his attraction to you.
Don’t make the mistake of thinking it’s too late to save your marriage if you’ve already broken up over his cheating. You can get your ex husband back.
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