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Forgiving Your Cheating Husband – 5 Steps To Forgiveness

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One of the difficult lessons that you may encounter in life is learning how to forgive a husband after he has cheated. If you need to go through this process, we hope that is indeed the toughest so far.

Learning these five steps to forgiveness though will help you forgive your cheating husband and to ultimately forgive yourself.

1) Have a willing heart. You don’t necessarily need to know the mechanics involved in making your heart forgive but you have to have a heart that is willing to forgive if you want to forgive your cheating husband. Remember the wise words of Mr. Ford, “If you think you can or think you can’t; you’re right.” Be willing to forgive and think you can do it and you will have half the battle won already.

2) Begin taking the small steps. There is no need to jump right it and make that all or nothing proposal. Begin by working your way with small acts of forgiveness and then progress towards forgiving the cheating all together. Definitely there are some little bothersome things he has done along the way and you hold some resentment within still. Practice forgiveness by forgetting about those things after you have forgiven the same.

3) Stop viewing things as black or white. Your relationship just like any other else’ is about give and take, compromise and an overwhelming love. If you keep on looking into things as black or white, just like your husband’s acts as bad while yours are really good, you are in the right path of ruining things even before they have a chance to be revived. Instead of the labeling acts as right or wrong immediately, why not settle down and view differences as an opportunity to experience another point of view.

4) Pardon yourself. It is in the mirror that forgiveness commences. You suffer so much of the blame, self doubt, self loathing and more so with lack of self-respect. More than most people would realize, this is indeed common after a cheating spouse. The blaming comes in the mirror and more conveniently during those moments of tortuous honesty, where there is no prisoner being taken. You make yourself your worst critic and you are likely judging yourself in a harsher condition than anybody would.

5) Leave your anger behind. There is no need for you to accept the fact that your husband has cheated on you. There is no need for you to excuse the same. But for you who want that your relationship moves forward, you definitely have to forgive his cheating acts. That is not a sign that you condone or approve any of it or that you in the future will tolerate the same but you have to let this instance pass and confirm with yourself to never use it to attack him in your future bouts. Remember this is the most important part in the process of forgiveness.

Following a proven plan, like this one:, is the best way by far to get your cheating husband back and make sure he never cheats again.

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