What The Heck Are Rebound Relationships?

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What’s wrong with rebound relationships? They allow you to get over a former relationship that’s gone south, so what’s the problem? Unfortunately, a lot things. Lets take a closer look.

If you have been involved in deeply intimate, deeply intricate relationship, it is super critical you give yourself enough time and space to process the old relationship before you even think of moving on. Otherwise, you are dragging around old baggage.

Physically you are in space. But you find yourself allowing your thoughts and emotions to drift back to a different place. This is because you have not processed the old relationship. It still occupies a strong presence in your life.

Before entering an involvement with someone who may have history of rebound relationships, you need to be asking some tough upfront questions: Are you emotionally over the past relationship? Has enough time elapsed to allow the processing of the emotions? Is it really time to consider an another deep involvement?

The seductive component in these rebound relationships is simply the exhilarating plush of a new romance. Of course, we all know that is stage one. What lies beyond door number two? That’s where you find out what your new involvement is made of. Stage one can be so emotionally powerful, we forget the reality of how relationships really work.

If you find yourself in one of these rebound relationships, or if you are about to enter one, purposely slow things down a tad. It is not going to hurt anything. Be cautious. Ask questions, both of yourself and of your new partner. If the new involvement has value, it can withstand some scrutiny.

If you are not careful you’ll find yourself to be an emotional band-aid, just filling a space that allows your new interest a little time to heal and move on to something else, someone else, all at your emotional expense and the cost of your heart.

Be realistic when it comes to these rebound relationships. Know them for what they really are. Know that when entering into one, the odds of flourishing, healthy, long-lasting involvement is not very good – although it can happen. If you do that, you’ll at least be aware of the hazards and realistic about a possible outcome.

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