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Winning Her Back – How To Do It

By Guest

She left you because of your inexcusable mistake and you want to get back with her. But you’re not sure what to do first. Probably, you know the exact word to say but you don’t have the guts to say it. For some, saying sorry is the hardest thing to do and it’s the most difficult word to utter.

Why do we struggle to say such phonetically simple words? The difficulty lies on the fact that admitting we’re wrong and asking for forgiveness mean letting go of our agenda, confessing that our way wasn’t the best, and meeting head-on the pride that so often seeks to dominate our days. While seeking forgiveness is difficult, it is still possible. As the psalmist wrote, “The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and save’th such as be of a contrite spirit.” (Psalm 34:18)

Putting in the Time

Fixing a relationship is really no different from fixing anything else that’s broken. What makes fixing a relationship so hard is the emotional issue that tends to take free reign when things go wrong. More oftentimes than not, the number one area where a relationship begins to breakdown is the area of commitment.

Fight, cold exchanges, and everyday pressures can weaken a couple’s sense of commitment. Job commitments are connected to our means of survival but it affects the relationship. The more you focus on your career, the less time you give to your partner; the less time you give, the more the relationship weakens; and the more it weakens, there’s a big possibility of cheating.

Regardless of the amount of time you were together, fixing a broken heart will take time, effort, and dedication. It is important to realize that winning her back will not happen in a blink of an eye. It will take weeks, months or even years to realize exactly what she had with you.

Action Planning

Man is a social animal. One’s mental health, happiness, self-esteem, and ability to work are influenced greatly by our relationships. If a relationship falls apart, our mental health will be greatly affected.

Here are the steps you will need to capture the heart of your prey with elegance and attitude.

1) Give her some space after the breakup. A room is needed for her to cool off and reevaluate her life. Maintain a distance with limited contact. You no longer have the right to know exactly what she is doing or where is she at any given moment. If the two of you are sealed with marriage, you still need to limit your communication with her.

2) Move on. If she decides to talk to you, try not to focus on the issue. Try to avoid discussing relationships until she’s ready to do so. If possible, let her start the conversation about the said topic. Don’t pretend to be a different person as no one changes overnight.

3) Don’t be apprehensive. Don’t cause a fight if she begins dating with someone else. Maybe she wanted to move on and that’s one of her way to escape the past. She will come back to you if the relationship is destined to work out.

4) Notice how others change in response. Develop your independence. The more you take control and allow yourself to be yourself, the more you will be respected by others. Don’t be afraid if a disagreement with someone ends in an argument. The better you become at playing your full part in relationships, the better you will feel about yourself. Once you accept yourself, others will find it easier to accept you.

Convincing Statements

After you’ve put in a little bit of time working to woo her back and convincer her that she really is the only woman for you (no matter what your past actions may have told her) you’re going to have to make an even more convincing statement.

Relationship is not only about love and happiness. There will always be some additives to spice it up. It’s up to the involved persons to handle such spices. Once everything has been mixed, that relationship will be the best food cooked by a chef and that chef is you.

Believe it or not, this free video: http://www.getyourexbacknow.com/just_break_up3.html teaches you the one thing you absolutely must do in order to win her back.

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Winning Her Back – How To Do It

By T Dub Jackson

She left you because of your inexcusable mistake and you want to get back with her. But you’re not sure what to do first. Probably, you know the exact word to say but you don’t have the guts to say it. For some, saying sorry is the hardest thing to do and it’s the most difficult word to utter.

This is the nature of men because they were molded to be the provider of the family, make difficult decisions, and take control of the situations. It’s very rare to see men crying but they do privately especially if they’ve realized their faults. Men are also sincere when it comes to apologies. They will not treat it as a joke but a lesson to be learned and you’ll realize that he’s love is authentic and incomparable.

Putting in the Time

Fixing a relationship is really no different from fixing anything else that’s broken. What makes fixing a relationship so hard is the emotional issue that tends to take free reign when things go wrong. More oftentimes than not, the number one area where a relationship begins to breakdown is the area of commitment.

If you’re a man of respect who caused this turmoil to your partner, you will feel guilty seeing your ex out of control at the bar because of what you did. For her, it’s impossible to forget the memories you’ve shared together and the only way to escape is to get drunk and go wild. But it’s not wise to stop her because you’ll carry the blame and you’ll be put into shame.

You’re going to have to spend a little time showing her how much this second chance means rather than just telling her all about it.

Earning a Second Chance

Man is a social animal. One’s mental health, happiness, self-esteem, and ability to work are influenced greatly by our relationships. If a relationship falls apart, our mental health will be greatly affected.

Although good relationships are valuable, don’t underestimate the importance of solitude; the ability to enjoy and to find creative strength in our own company. After the breakup, you’ll feel isolated by your loneliness; but you can improve your relationship by letting go the past for the meantime.

1) Apologize. This isn’t going to do it all in one fell swoop but it is a great first step in the right direction. It won’t erase the pain and won’t earn instant forgiveness but it will help her make the decision to forgive you.

2) Acknowledge. Recognize the pain she must be feeling. Acknowledge your part in bringing her that pain and look for ways to make it right.

3) Work with people as they are. Be realistic. If you find yourself thinking “If only he would tell me what he’s thinking” or “If only he didn’t criticize me so much,” remember that if you want to bring about some changes in those relationships, you should put away this “if only” and accept people as they are.

4) Apology and acceptance. No matter what her decision will be, never forget to ask an apology. Be a gentleman at this time and accept it with an open heart. If she decides not to continue the relationship anymore or to file a divorce, you need to accept it and that’s your time to move on with your life. Learn from all your mistakes and perfect your new life in case.

The Conclusion

Win her with gifts. Gifts are expressions of love, gratitude, faithfulness and solidarity. You can give her favorites. Chocolates and flowers are advisable to give as gifts because there is nothing sweeter and fragrant than showing how you really feel for that one special in your life.

Cook her favorite food and give it as a gift as well. It represents thoughtfulness. Even if you failed to capture the real taste, it’s not a problem; what’s important is you have been creative and showed what you can do to make her happy again. That’s the best move that can knock her off.

Believe it or not, this free video: http://www.getyourexbacknow.com/just_break_up3.html teaches you the one thing you absolutely must do in order to win her back.

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Jackson, T D. "Winning Her Back – How To Do It." Winning Her Back – How To Do It. 17 Aug. 2010. uberarticles.com. 10 Apr 2015 <http://uberarticles.com/miscellaneous/winning-her-back-how-to-do-it/>.

APA Style Citation:
Jackson, T (2010, August 17). Winning Her Back – How To Do It. Retrieved April 10, 2015, from http://uberarticles.com/miscellaneous/winning-her-back-how-to-do-it/

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Jackson, T D. "Winning Her Back – How To Do It" uberarticles.com. http://uberarticles.com/miscellaneous/winning-her-back-how-to-do-it/


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