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Things To Do Before Getting Your Ex Boyfriend Back

By T Dub Jacskon

You want him back. You know the good, the bad, and the darned near impossible to handle about him and you still want him back. But, what should you say to your cheating ex boyfriend to win him back?

But before you pull over to his house and talk about making up, it is best to map out what you have to say. There could be millions of ways on how to say “I want you back” and there are also a million times more to spoil it.

You can have the perfect conversation mapped out in your mind. Unfortunately, whenever you are in the same room together those perfect plans fly out the window and sparks begin to fly.

Hands down, sort everything out before you corroborate your words with actions. It’s hard for these two to stick together sometimes. Remember that the situation is emotionally charged making the will-be-meeting a done-deal-words-and-actions encounter.

Remove the Emotional Charge from the Equation

Remember to do away with your sorrow, sadness, hurt, and anger to really say what you mean. It might be difficult to remove the electricity from a very nostalgic situation but this will help you to become objective in explaining your hearts out. Being too emotional can send him away and that will stop you from saying sorry.

Words said in tears or anger doesn’t have that same effect before. Even a sincere apology won’t sound sincere at all.

Put it in Writing

But the question is how you are going to stop yourself from crying, getting angry or hurling back fuming words when the conversation begins. Stopping yourself from being emotional can be literally painful in the heart and just letting this emotional baggage go can send him away in a few seconds.

An emotional meeting could ruin the original motive of the meeting. Instead of focusing on trying to make things up, you could end up digging into the wounds again and hurling back words you wouldn’t have said yourself.

Expressing yourself through Emails or text messages might sound a little informal and not personal. A well-crafted handwritten note that is not too long nor too short, not too blunt nor too flowery but something straight from the heart is something that you need to do to avoid miscommunication and disagreements that personal meeting usually results to.

Get the Words Right

Getting your ex back especially if you’re the one trying can be saddening but you must put a brake on this kind of thinking. Win back his heart after you got over the hurt and depression. In this case any decisions that you’ll make will be crafted soundly and are not influenced by your emotions.

You can’t “unsay” words but you can remove them from a letter. Another great thing about a hand-written letter that you put in the mail and send to him is that it will be completely unexpected. It will have him off guard and in a more open frame of mind.

Of course you should never even dream of using the power of a letter like this to get your ex back until you know what your next move is going to be.

Don’t guess about what comes next. Have a proven plan in hand and ready to go when he calls you. I recommend following the same plan that has helped thousands of other couples just like you work things out:

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Jacskon, T D. "Things To Do Before Getting Your Ex Boyfriend Back." Things To Do Before Getting Your Ex Boyfriend Back. 4 Jul. 2010. 8 Nov 2014 <>.

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