It is natural to feel the need to get your boyfriend back. There are times, however, when it is not entirely possible. Of course, many of those who did try to get their boyfriends back became successful due to several factors-factors that may not apply in your case. Getting back an old flame is a case to case basis; it isn’t mechanical or something you can achieve using a formula or a fool-proof plan. So in case you do fail to get your boyfriend back, what do you do?
As ironic as it sounds, the things that you should do to get your boyfriend back are the same things you should do when you efforts fail. That is, of course, if you have been doing the right things all this time. Needless to say, during the time that you are trying to get your boyfriend back, you should have been focusing more on yourself rather than just your ex boyfriend. This way, you won’t end up on the losing end of the bargain when you do fail.
Give your boyfriend the room that he needs, which might be hard for you at first, but you can do this. The worst thing that you can do right now for your relationship is to be too clingy. Perhaps, it is the other way around and he is the one that is being too clingy and if this is the case, then begin by totally ignoring him. Whatever the scenario, the idea is that you need to move on and it is up to you to make that first move. On all of your social networks such as MySpace and Facebook be sure to remove him from your contact list. This will send him the message that you are finished with him.
Oftentimes, some individuals feel they need closure, but getting that from an ex boyfriend might be an impossible task. Many women will use the excuse of wanting to get closure from him just for a chance to get to continue communication with him. However, the best thing that any female can do for herself is not to talk to her ex boyfriend for any reason whatsoever. You can still get closure without communicating with him by simply determining for yourself what his actions tell you. Oftentimes, people try to add more into what is there when that is not always the situation.
One way of “moving on” is eliminating things that remind you of your ex boyfriend. Throw away anything that you can associate him with. But, of course, you can choose to be practical about this-after all, why throw things he gave you that are simply too valuable. You can just collect small items he gave you-letters, tokens, small gifts-and throw them away. Its function will be more metaphorical than anything else, and this can be your closure.
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