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Useful Dating Tips For Any Short Guy

By Mike Morton

When it comes to women it could be difficult to connect with them, particularly if you feel intimidated or feel like you have any physical trait that they might not like.

Many men of any height choke at the prospect of approaching new women with the simple goal of just dancing in a club or during a formal event. This job could also prove a lot more daunting when a person considers themselves a short guy, lacking the confidence that may be displayed by men of taller stature. The reality is the height of a person often doesn’t play a role in the mind of many women, and if you can gain confidence in who you are and what you have to provide you could actually have considerable success meeting and dating women any time. Granted there are people who are attracted to taller men – but the truth is there are just as many women attracted to the short guy. In many cases the issue is your self-confidence, not the women themselves.

When you find yourself in the position where you want to approach a woman, do not let your short guy stature be a deterrent. You can do it – and in fact there are many advantages to being the short guy in this kind of situation. Being a short guy to could be beneficial for you, you could approach a woman in a busy or loud surrounding and achieve something which most of the taller men cannot achieve, direct eye contact. Eye contact is essential in a first impression as it allows the woman to see where your focus is (and question the attention of your wandering eyes).

First impressions matter – and she will get one before you even say anything if your eyes give her assurances that you’re confident in yourself. A good rule of thumb is to hold her gaze for at least three full beats before looking away to convey your confidence and leadership. When you find yourself engaged in discussion don’t consider your height – realize that being a short guy doesn’t matter, it’s who you are – and how you convey your security in who you are – that makes all the difference. That said, be cautious not to let confidence be perceived as arrogance – for any guy, whether a short or tall one, that is a turn off for many women.

Women can often not stand a male who is full of themselves injecting their self-centered nature into conversation or always turning conversation to be focused on themselves. Several women enjoy light-hearted conversation – even stories you tell making a little fun of yourself as a short guy could increase your attractiveness so long as you are sure not to dominate the conversation. Ladies enjoy talking about themselves, so make sure you are listening and taking an interest in what revolves around her – and for extra points, gently make fun of her. Keeping the conversation going with jokes would help not only paint you as an attentive and quality individual but would increase your confidence.

The final tip for the short guy relates to honesty in conversation. Several men feel they need to embellish on many of the facts of their life and while this may sound good at first; it could be devastating down the road. Be a symbol of honesty in any relationship.

Everyday short guys like you can get tips and build dating skills which can beat taller guys at the game. To learn more on how you can overcome any limit, and to get more details about styles for short men go to http://www.ShortGuysRule.com NOW.

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Morton, Mike "Useful Dating Tips For Any Short Guy." Useful Dating Tips For Any Short Guy. 16 Aug. 2010. uberarticles.com. 18 Feb 2015 <http://uberarticles.com/self-improvement/useful-dating-tips-for-any-short-guy/>.

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